Flyingsquirrel

 
sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
i just want to apologize for my past behaviors in the pond towards you. i need to work harder at not letting my self get all worked up over a silly statement, i went to far with you and you didn't deserve that. i hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me.

Posted on Tue Feb 02 17:13:56 PST 2010

momhart
86 posts
5 of Spades
LL?

Posted on Tue Feb 02 17:24:38 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
momhart wrote: LL?


i assume your talking about llstjohn, no in the pond i am, ok you might be surprised, but i am purplehaze72 in the pond.

Posted on Tue Feb 02 17:29:05 PST 2010

momhart
86 posts
5 of Spades
sofedupwithit wrote:
momhart wrote: LL?


i assume your talking about llstjohn, no in the pond i am, ok you might be surprised, but i am purplehaze72 in the pond.


Anyone else?

Posted on Tue Feb 02 17:43:14 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
momhart wrote:
sofedupwithit wrote:
momhart wrote: LL?


i assume your talking about llstjohn, no in the pond i am, ok you might be surprised, but i am purplehaze72 in the pond.


Anyone else?


no not in the pond, this forum is the only one i created different names i promise!

Posted on Tue Feb 02 17:45:07 PST 2010

llstjohn
366 posts
7 of Clubs
momhart wrote: LL?

I can get into trouble even when I am trying to be good.
i got to tell you, purp. I was in on that situation from the beginning and if there is an apology to be made it should be from her to you. Just my opinion.

Posted on Tue Feb 02 18:42:40 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
llstjohn wrote:
momhart wrote: LL?

I can get into trouble even when I am trying to be good.
i got to tell you, purp. I was in on that situation from the beginning and if there is an apology to be made it should be from her to you. Just my opinion.


all i am doing is trying to get past this, as i should not be so angry and hurt over one person. Maybe i shouldn't have taken all the blame maybe just my part in the whole mess but i just want to get along, and get things back to normal

Posted on Tue Feb 02 18:54:18 PST 2010

mooma
2539 posts
10 of Diamonds
Good for you, purp... that's how I feel about things also. Willing to take the blame, just to clear the air already. But... good luck on getting your apology accepted, or even a remnant of one to yourself. Speaking from a similar experience. Why is it that "forgiven," or "sorry," seem to be the hardest words. "...it's a sad, sad situation, and it's getting more and more absurd."

Posted on Tue Feb 02 19:50:18 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
mooma wrote: Good for you, purp... that's how I feel about things also. Willing to take the blame, just to clear the air already. But... good luck on getting your apology accepted, or even a remnant of one to yourself. Speaking from a similar experience. Why is it that "sorry," or "it's forgiven," seem to be the hardest words for some.


if she doesn't thats on her, i did what i felt i needed to do by apologizing and if she doesn't accept it i can't do anything more then and i will have no more guilty feelings as i tried to offer a truce

Posted on Tue Feb 02 19:58:10 PST 2010

mooma
2539 posts
10 of Diamonds
That's how I finally dealt with the situation... you might be stuck with that.

Posted on Tue Feb 02 19:59:41 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
mooma wrote: That's how I finally dealt with the situation... you might be stuck with that.


i can accept that, and be fine with it

Posted on Tue Feb 02 20:13:08 PST 2010

flyingsquirrely
1332 posts
9 of Spades
This was the first time of seeing this. I have been busy all day. Of course Purple I will accept your apology and I would also like to say I am sorry back. Maybe one of these days I will be able to come back to BF to post again to talk to you more.

Posted on Tue Feb 02 21:04:37 PST 2010

pepper61
325 posts
7 of Clubs
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Posted on Tue Feb 02 21:07:43 PST 2010

mooma
2539 posts
10 of Diamonds
I'm just glad purp's apology was accepted. Hope you feel better, purp!

Posted on Tue Feb 02 22:17:37 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
flyingsquirrely wrote: This was the first time of seeing this. I have been busy all day. Of course Purple I will accept your apology and I would also like to say I am sorry back. Maybe one of these days I will be able to come back to BF to post again to talk to you more.


thank you squirrel, glad that you are a forgiving person! and only come back to BF if its what you want to do and are comfortable with.

Posted on Wed Feb 03 06:56:27 PST 2010

flyingsquirrely
1332 posts
9 of Spades
sofedupwithit wrote:
flyingsquirrely wrote: This was the first time of seeing this. I have been busy all day. Of course Purple I will accept your apology and I would also like to say I am sorry back. Maybe one of these days I will be able to come back to BF to post again to talk to you more.


thank you squirrel, glad that you are a forgiving person! and only come back to BF if its what you want to do and are comfortable with.


I am not welcomed there.

Posted on Wed Feb 03 14:27:33 PST 2010

mooma
2539 posts
10 of Diamonds
I don't get it. Maybe you just "think" you're not?

Posted on Wed Feb 03 15:27:52 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
flyingsquirrely wrote:
sofedupwithit wrote:
flyingsquirrely wrote: This was the first time of seeing this. I have been busy all day. Of course Purple I will accept your apology and I would also like to say I am sorry back. Maybe one of these days I will be able to come back to BF to post again to talk to you more.


thank you squirrel, glad that you are a forgiving person! and only come back to BF if its what you want to do and are comfortable with.


I am not welcomed there.


i would welcome you!

Posted on Wed Feb 03 16:08:41 PST 2010

momhart
86 posts
5 of Spades
sofedupwithit wrote:
flyingsquirrely wrote:
sofedupwithit wrote:
flyingsquirrely wrote: This was the first time of seeing this. I have been busy all day. Of course Purple I will accept your apology and I would also like to say I am sorry back. Maybe one of these days I will be able to come back to BF to post again to talk to you more.


thank you squirrel, glad that you are a forgiving person! and only come back to BF if its what you want to do and are comfortable with.


I am not welcomed there.


i would welcome you!


So would I

Posted on Wed Feb 03 17:32:34 PST 2010

flyingsquirrely
1332 posts
9 of Spades
That means a lot. I just thought that after our blow up that I wasn't welcomed. My last post I made there, I told everyone Merry Christmas and not one person responded.

Posted on Wed Feb 03 19:56:09 PST 2010

momhart
86 posts
5 of Spades
flyingsquirrely wrote: That means a lot. I just thought that after our blow up that I wasn't welcomed. My last post I made there, I told everyone Merry Christmas and not one person responded.


Do you have any idea how many Christmas threads there were? Too Many!! I didn't look in any of them myself. Doesn't mean you won't be welcomed. I think things go by so fast that they probably don't even remember anything about the BS. Give it a try.

Posted on Thu Feb 04 03:39:19 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
flyingsquirrely wrote: That means a lot. I just thought that after our blow up that I wasn't welcomed. My last post I made there, I told everyone Merry Christmas and not one person responded.


i doubt anyone will really remember, though after yesterday i have found a few others that are so unforgiving and grudge holders that i am now taking a small siesta from there, but that happened because of me trying to forgive and forget and start anew with someone i had a problem with that i guess alot of people had trouble with. which i know that with you squirrely that will not be the case with you!

Posted on Thu Feb 04 09:02:33 PST 2010

momhart
86 posts
5 of Spades
sofedupwithit.....
If you're talking about bizz, I think she'll come around. She always does.
Here's a {{{{{BIG HUG}}}}} Don't give up if you really feel stongly about it!!

Posted on Thu Feb 04 13:58:25 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
momhart wrote: sofedupwithit.....
If you're talking about bizz, I think she'll come around. She always does.
Here's a {{{{{BIG HUG}}}}} Don't give up if you really feel stongly about it!!


thank you momhart! i have to give up, didn't realize that people would take it like they did and all the pm's i got was just ridiculous! i guess those people never made mistakes before! but i can't talk about that no more as every time i do i get angry agian!

Posted on Thu Feb 04 14:03:23 PST 2010

mooma
2539 posts
10 of Diamonds
That's the spirit, sofed... carry on and be friendly! The grudge-holders ultimately buckle under their own burden, if that's what that choose. But they shouldn't stop you from forgiving and forgetting. And it's nice to see you folks encouraging squirrely to do the same.

Posted on Thu Feb 04 15:00:45 PST 2010

momhart
86 posts
5 of Spades
I'm sorry, Phaze! I'll help you smile everyday until you feel better....Deal?

Posted on Thu Feb 04 15:24:28 PST 2010

flyingsquirrely
1332 posts
9 of Spades
I'm sorry to hear about bizz, Purple. I don't know her but it takes too much energy to hold grudges. I'm glad we are talking to each other. Before our incident you know we have never even spoke to each other before. hmmmm.

Posted on Thu Feb 04 16:15:37 PST 2010

Room333
3717 posts
10 of Diamonds
mooma wrote: That's the spirit, sofed... carry on and be friendly! The grudge-holders ultimately buckle under their own burden, if that's what that choose. But they shouldn't stop you from forgiving and forgetting. And it's nice to see you folks encouraging squirrely to do the same.

Good advise! Moo, I sure hope someone was listening...

Posted on Thu Feb 04 17:57:24 PST 2010

gmac1007
6786 posts
Jack of Clubs
Sofed don't let the grudge holders wear you down it's not worth and they are not worth it. I have plenty of people that have held grudges on me for years but hey that's their thing and so be it. I probably got people here that aren't to fond of me anymore but oh well, one thing I can say about that is I tried to be a friend and maybe they did'nt like the way I did certain things but everybody does things different it does'nt mean your not being a friend just because you handle something differently than someone else. So don't let it get to ya. I'm always around in and out and if you need a good shoulder or someone to vent off to I'll be more than glad to lend mine to ya and I'm at bf so you can pm me if you want the name is the same as here. Take Care and don't let it get to ya. Just know you did your part and now it's their turn. Take Care

Posted on Thu Feb 04 20:03:53 PST 2010

sofedupwithit
165 posts
6 of Diamonds
thank you guys, i think i am over it now, let them hold grudges all they want, doesn't mean i have to!

Posted on Fri Feb 05 19:03:13 PST 2010

hunt101
81 posts
5 of Spades
flyingsquirrely wrote: That means a lot. I just thought that after our blow up that I wasn't welcomed. My last post I made there, I told everyone Merry Christmas and not one person responded.


Wasn't I've Got A Secret your last post?

Posted on Fri Feb 05 20:49:44 PST 2010

gmac1007
6786 posts
Jack of Clubs
sofedupwithit wrote: thank you guys, i think i am over it now, let them hold grudges all they want, doesn't mean i have to!
You go girl that is so right !!! Remember you have new friends here who will listen if need them to ! Take Care ! You Rock Sofed and hey DID YOU TASTE THAT ? lol

Posted on Fri Feb 05 23:29:15 PST 2010